veederp:

Knowing someone online for a few months is never a broad enough basis to rationalize moving across the country to live with them.
You don’t know them intimately.
They could be any kind of person.

Including the kind that’s going to abuse and take advantage of you.
So think extra super hard about changing your life for someone you barely know.
You could end up walking away with only the clothes on your back.

(And no, that’s not me, thank fucking god)

solid advice. even if it’s just a few states away, or a few hours away, think hard before you act. your support net will not be available out there if thingsturn out poorly. 

as lousy as you may feel your current situation is, leaving all your existing friends for a gamble? could turn out much worse for you.

06/23/12 at 8:02am
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    solid advice. even if it’s just a few states away, or a few hours away, think hard before you act. your support net will...
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